Experience Success by Becoming a Change Agent

Having a problem with change? Well, you are not alone. Status quo is a comfort zone for most of us because it is a state of normality. The problem with staying in our current circumstance is that it can prevent us from growing and realizing our dreams. The answer to fearlessly facing uncharted territory is to learn to embrace change.

How does one go about that? First map out the changes you want to make in your life. It helps just to get it in writing. Next prioritize the changes. Ask yourself what one item on the list would improve your current situation? Then arm yourself with a little bit of faith. Know that you have what it takes to make that change. Remind yourself of a time in your life when you successfully changed directions. Focus on that a bit. Your past achievement will bolster your courage to move forward.

In my book, nothing works better than accountability. Why? The answer is, we are averse to failing in front of others. Use this to your advantage by selecting a respected friend to hold you accountable in your quest for change. For example, if you want to save money for your dream vacation but have precious little discipline when it comes to curbing your spending habits, set a realistic goal on how much you will save per week. Share that weekly goal with your accountability partner. When the week is up, report in on the money you were able to save. Chances are, in an effort to save face, you will have managed to squirrel away the cash you that you squandered in the past.

Another ploy that works in enticing change is reward. Yes, by all means employ the carrot. If you meet your change goal at the end of the week, reward yourself. Celebrating your achievements helps build self confidence. The reward need not be huge. It can be as simple as treating yourself to a new book, a piece of dark chocolate or a trip to the video store to get the latest movie release.

Keep working through that list you made. One successful change will give you the momentum to take on another. Becoming a change agent need not be nearly as painful as feeling stuck or trapped in life as you know it. Get ready to change starting today. The benefits are unlimited!

Want more help on becoming a change agent and creating the life you desire? As a life coach, I specialize in bringing you to your best. Let me show you how to implement and embrace positive lasting change. Email me today at sunny@sunnysimon.com for a complimentary coaching session. http://www.sunnysimon.com

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