Satisfaction is the mental food that we need to stay happy.Satisfaction comes on fulfilment of our desires.We cannot control fulfilment of our desires.But we can control our desires.Our life is in our hands.We should handle it carefully and in an intelligent way.
Be unbiased towards your own self
You should know who u r?
Many times we see people around us who donot understand most simple things in life.We should look at ourself abstractly as if we are somebody else.This will help us to understand others view about us.We should try to identify that ” we all are the same and anybody could have been in any other persons place “.For going ahead we must know the current status.It is very important come to a conclusion as to what we are.If we know ourselves we can analyze our past understand and we can improve our future .And we will be able to accept whatever happens to us.if we know ourself we will be able to deal with our own self in a better way.
Love yourself the way you want to be loved by others.
Try to realize your true self and what you deserve.if we know what you want making decisions becomes easier in life.if we start understanding what is life then life becomes static.static in this context means that unwanted things wont affect us.When we know what we are we can explain to others what we desire and be happy
Accept whatever life gives you
There is one more part to this a person who chooses happiness is never happy.he will always keep choosing his focus is on choosing that wont make him happy.let life choose things for you.accept them in the most beautiful way.this will make you the most comfortable person.
Try to understand life as if you are god itself
if you try to understand life as if you are GOD you will have to be at top management level .You will realize GOD’s creativity.GOD is power house where product and waste material.both are produced. Product is positive energy and waste products represents negative energy.you will realize nothing happening to you is unfair. And you will be able to accept it.it is just fate.life is like a game.we must live with right spirit.Winning game of life is being satisfied and happy..all tricks and cheating your heart for convincing it is also allowed.even if something is worse u may interpret it as somethingless than worse.because life is unpredictable.who knows what are lifes plans for you..but you should know what you are doing
Our life is how we perceive it.our feelings are in our control.we should observe our feelings.we will realize that feelings are processes.they occur within us.like when we fall down pain is generated and pain makes us upset.
In olden days women used to perform sati at their own will.it was painful but it gave them pride to die for their families.same is for warriors.pain can also be helpful if accepted in correct way.
If a student fails in his exam.he will feel the pain of failure.but the pain would lead him to the right path.so pain cannot be bad.it is part and parcel of our life.pain helps you to understand depth of life.this way everything can satify us .we just have to explain to ourselves.
Your satisfaction should depend on you.
Your satisfaction is your right.but we should take care that our right should not violate others right.keeping our ownself satisfied is our responsibility.
A person may be satisfied with a maruti800. One person may need a Ferrari to get satisfied.our satisfaction depends on our standards of life.
Godmade things satisfy us better
GOD is basic origin of anything and everything that exists in the universe.then comes GOD-made entities.That is nature and animals.Then human beings made other objects to satisfy their needs .As satisfaction is natural feeling,so another natural feeling will support it better than human made objects.therefore kindness gives us more satisfaction than buying a car.If a car was essential to lead a good life God would have made cars or other materialistic things.human Beings keep experimenting for finding true happinezz .
If we are satisfied with natural entities all aspects will support us .the nature our own heart.for example let us take consider two type of people name of first person is spiritual , who is satisfied with happiness of family and second person named material who loves cars .material will never be satisfied .he will keep buying cars .new cars will always keep coming .When we get materialistic thing.happiness is shortlived
Spiritual may face problems but his satisfaction will be long lived.as he finds satisfaction in good deeds even GOD and fate will support him.whereas material will be supported by the company of the car.decision is upto us whose support we want.
Therefore when a person wishes to have a car and thinks this will satisfy him.it is just an illusion.he has wrong perception that car will satisfy him.the car will not satisfy him and in turn he will crave for another better car as soon as he gets the one car.And he will loose track and in the chain of his wants lost.And we never know when the person will actually realize what his heart actually desires.
