How to Get over a Guy?
It's easy to get over a guy when you HAVE to. Like, if you break up, or if they were an absolute jerk. But nothing is really forcing me to get over him, I'm just doing it for my own benefit, I don't want to waste time being obsessed with him, and I don't want to worry about everything that happens with him! I'm doing a pretty good job at getting over him right now, but in my heart of hearts I keep thinking about him and hoping that somehow things will still work out between us! I know I WANT to move on, but since i'm the only one making that decision, I feel like I could go back any time I wanted to just being in complete adoration of him. How do you
motivate yourself to do that?
Suggestion:
I think your missing out on a great relationship if it is that he didn't do anything wrong. Sometimes our hearts must hurt b/c the same thing won't hurt you twice so if a jerk hurts you they won't on more b/c you wouldn't go out with a jerk anymore instead you would go with who is worth it.
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been their with my ex we broke up last summer tried to be friends this summer and it took me 2 whole years to get over my ex it takes a long time its no joke at all i am finely at peace with myself and living life and that is what you need to do go out with friends family get a job go to school and a you will meet new guys and go out with someone else its happens. you have to live and learn think why you guys broke up and try to better yourself so the next new guy comes you will know what to do
Let your Heart Breathe for a moment…… <3 it takes time!!
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move onto another guy…it works every time
only time will heal
If it is that what you really want…
Focus on his bad habits and things you don't like about him.
Think more about yourself, put yourself first and your well being.
Be proud of yourself. Go out with your friends, make exciting plans for the future, enjoy your freedom, be happy about yourself, do new things.
Just get distracted the most you can!
Good luck!
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I've been in your place. I tried finding someone else, I hung out with my friends more, found something new to do, etc. Keep your mind off of him and if you find yourself drifting to him again focus your mind on something better.
U do this by getting a giant black guy with a d.i.ck the size of shaqs foot and tell him to f u c k u up the a$$
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