How to Unplug Yourself from Unhappiness and Loneliness

The beautiful, twinkling, shining stars pulled away all wishes that were made that night by everyone, everyone, everyone. The sun rose from the hills turning into a bright sunrise and let all light come out to share its love and happiness with everything that day.

Kiki lived with her aunt and uncle in a tiny house that she does not like at all.

“I don’t even have my own room. It’s so noisy in this living room where I have to sleep every night on that old broken gray coach, that I can’t fall asleep until one o’clock in the morning,” complained Kiki to herself. She looked through the kitchen window with a sad expression on her face.

Do you recognize this situation? Do you feel that life sometimes is just full of negativity?

Everything and everyone holds many different sides, perspectives, and characteristics one can choose from. If you do not recognize anything in your life other than unfairness, rudeness, or whatever you are unhappy about, then it will constantly feel like happiness, joy, and excitement do not exist in your life. It would feel like all those optimistic moments do not touch you at all, but they are there; just hidden for you to put them into your life. The choice is yours to do this to yourself or not. You can be happy all the time. You can unplug the unhappiness in your life and get happy.

There are three tips to increase your happy days:

-Be brave! Start discovering what’s around you.

-Always look for positive sides in your situation. Go in this direction; you’ll find what you’re seeking for.

-Treat your situation as a lesson with some benefits. What you can learn from it? How can this situation help you to grow into a better person?

Natalie Tinti is a10-year-old award winning author and illustrator of a children’s book, Sewing a Friendship, that empowers children to use their talents and imagination to focus on the importance and power of true friendships. To learn more about her books, visit http://tintinatie.com