1. your breath stinks(you wont clean your visaline properly ever)-so it makes me feel like i dont have feelings for you because of the stench thats how bad it is. bleh
2. you dont shave too often and if u do it doesnt remain consistant
3. you dont get haircuts every 6 weeks
4. you dont comb your hair
5. you get stubburn
6. you care about money to much aka your such a tight wad cheap person
7. you ignore me sometimes a little bit too much
8.your family doesnt like me as we discussed on the phone…and they think bad things of me
9. you dont trust me
10. you get boring and we rarely have fun
11. we always have disagreements we go on and on about things we never agree on
12. we dont go anywhere anymore like we used to. (ex: mall, movies, even watching movies at home together)
13. your family is too demanding of you (they expect you to always be at their beck and call) its good that your devoted to your family but it can only go so far if you want to make your gf happy
14. we barely have anything in common
15. you dont surprize me
16. you never randomly want to buy me anything
17. your not generous
18. your car is ugly and it smells
19. you dont have as good hygene as you used to (you work yourself to hard sometimes)
20. i feel like you dont take me seriously or listen to me or my advice for that matter
21. you never compliment me anymore
22. you rarely make me feel special or that im worth anything to you
23. you may think that we have been in this relationship for 5 years so its okay to slack off on effort such as things you take as consideration when you first start dating someone to impress them which is lacking
24. you let your family boss you around and you never defend yourself and you let them say or do whatever such as you letting your dad work you until your exhausted because you want to help him or impress him but it can only go so far
25. you act like you do everything for me but in reality you do the bare minimum (this is ok but acting like you do so much for me and help me all the time is wayyy to far because you only give me rides home from school sometimes, and be my boyfriend)
26. your friend jared blocked me on facebook for no reason at all and wont add me ack so how could we work out if your friends dont like me for no reason. all i did was say hi to him and then that was it.
27. you said some negative things about me to your family that you shouldnt have , which made them not like me even more
28. your room is a mess and you dont change your sheets one a week, every two weeks or even ever 3 weeks which is grose!!
29. you need to shave your gross hairy legs
30 you need to shave your gross hairy arms and not to mention…your arm pits.
Now these are the things I like about you:
1. you love me
2. I love you
3. you look attractive (you have a good face)
4. your skinny (lean) <3
5. you have perfect hands (when you clip your nails lol)
6. you have a good voice
7. i feel comfortable when we are together
8. i feel a connection still
9. you give me good advice
10. we have been together longer than most teenagers
11. you have a nice house and you live in the boondocks
12. your motivated with being successful by getting into a good college
13. you have a car
14. your far from lazy, you work hard on selling things online and creating your website and that impresses me, as well as your sat scores and motivation with school
15. i like that you like to cook because i hate cooking
16. you make me feel better when someone gets me upset
17. you have good clothing style
18. sometimes your personality makes me happy
19. your charming
20. you can be sweet and romantic (such as when you brought me those really nice flowers and a card on our 5 year anniversary)
21. your intelligent
22. your look is exactly my type brown eyes dark hair
23. past memories we had such as all the places we went and everything we did when we were younger teens and those past memories make me happy still and willing and wanting to build more
24. the way i feel when i look at you is great <3
25. you keep me motivated in school
26. you dont care about sex as much as any other guy and dont care that we are still virgins despite how we tried not to be lol
Suggestion:
Some of the reasons you love him, or don't, are hard to ignore. Some of them are fairly petty but hey, it's your list.
If this guy is your ex, you shouldn't be making lists about why you love him. You should only be making lists about the reason it won't work, or what you won't miss now he's gone. If you are still trying to decide if you should end it with this guy I can understand the 2 lists.
I guess the only advice I can give you is this – if another guy asked you out tomorrow, who was cute, combed his hair and had a nice car, would you say yes and be excited about the date, or would you cry for hours because you know it wouldn't be as good at what you had with this guy?
This guy could probably make a longer list about what he doesn't like about you. You'll never find a person who won't annoy you or disappoint you. You both have to make effort, sure – you both have to be honest too. I don't think you should send this list, but if you haven't spoken to him about most of them, that's kinda your fault.
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Send it to him!!! It will be a great way to show him how to improve on his faults. The first one put me off! EWWW bad breath!! By the way, if you are trying to say "you are", then you use YOU'RE, not YOUR.
Here's what his list about you looks like:
1. You post nasty questions about me on the internet
2. You say "your" when it should be "you're"
3. You complain too much
4. You're really dumb because you can't spell
5. You're really critical of me
6. You don't appreciate me
7. You annoy my friends when obviously they don't want to talk to you
8. You care way too much about money
9. You're selfish
10. You have way too much time on your hands if you have the time to write this list.
Girl, don't send this list to him. Some of that stuff is not even his fault. He can't help if his family and friends don't like you. All the stuff you put on their about hygiene would be enough for me to leave him alone. That sounds nasty.
Well, everyone has somethings they dislike about their significant other and you aren't the first. And, if he allows his family to talk about you like that and doesn't defend you, he can't really appreciate you at all. As for my relationships, I've always had things I disliked about my gf and even told them about it.
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